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Articles, open letters, and notes on books and research on separation by Barry Lillie.
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Where are you on road to recovery? What does the choice to separate feel like? Does it feel like a necessary, but difficult choice? Does it feel like a weight has been taken off your shoulders now that your unhappiness is in the open? Are you feeling overwhelmed or paralyzed by the decisions that have…
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Talking to your children about separating or breaking up is hard to do! The end of an intimate relationship is often messy; the end of an intimate relationship with children is messy and complicated at best, gut wrenching and devastating at worst. The decision to end an intimate relationship with children triggers difficult conversations. Unfortunately,…
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‘…there is no mystery of human behavior that cannot be solved inside your head or your heart.’ Gavin de Becker, The Gift of Fear A recent article in the Globe and Mail (‘Pandemic complicates parental-access battles’ April 11, 2020) suggest lawyers are busier than ever as separated parents clash over changing custody orders for their…
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