Kids ‘n’ Dad Blog

Barry and family
Barry and his family; discussions of family feature in several blog posts

This page includes Barry’s writing and highlights real world separation cases, notes on books by divorce experts, and guest posts from families who engaged with Kids ‘n’ Dad services.

Browse by topic using the tags, or explore these highlighted articles below. Scroll to the bottom of the page for the archive of Barry’s 50+ essays, open letters, and reflections.

Barry in the news

Articles by Barry that were featured in local newspapers over the years.

Every dad wants what’s best for his children

My 47th Father’s Day intersects with the recent passage of my 75th birthday, a milestone that started me on a journey of remembrance from childhood to adolescence, to parenting and grandparenting.

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Our Kids Matter

Twenty three years ago this month, I embarked on the most unpredictable and life-changing journey of my life – a separation with children after nearly 25 years of marriage. 

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dad with kid on his shoulders looking out window

A father’s love is forever, through whatever

The Record’s Father’s Day weekend edition — specifically the June 20 story “More men go for parenting advice” — was disappointing and troubling for the implications about the importance of the role of fathers in the life of their family.

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Separation Stories and Cases

Hear from others who have walked the path of separation before you. Some of these posts were guest-authored for Kids ‘n’ Dad.

two empty park swings

After my parents divorced

birthday cake

Letter to God from a Proud Father

dad on beach with two kids

Lessons from a Separated Dad

My Family Matters… Too!

I am the silent unseen voice…I am the “new” wife that stands behind my husband who has battled through a court system for 7 years just to have access to and the right to be a father to his daughter.

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Divorce in the headlines: